(**side note one: this isn't a jab at anyone personally**) (** side note two: i shouldn't have to explain myself, its my blog**) My husband and I don't grossly make out in front of the kids. We don't argue over money in front of the kids. We don't dump adult problems on them. Cause they are kids. They range in ages from 14 to 7. What they do see is a man and a woman who love each other very much. They see a husband that works hard to provide for his family. They see a wife that works hard to provide for her family. They see a dad that works hard and is there for his kids. They see a mom that works hard and is there for her kids. They see a couple who shares money. They hear us talking about budgets and savings. Its not his money and its not my money. It's our money that we make to make this house go round. They see us hold hands while sitting on the couch watching TV any day of the week. They see their dad hold open a door for me. They he